Sexual Orientation: A person's internal experience of sexual, romantic and emotional attraction.
Emotional Orientation: Emotional orientation refers to an individual's capacity to feel strong emotional connections with others, which can include feelings of empathy, compassion, and intimacy. It involves the ability to form deep emotional bonds with other people, regardless of whether those relationships are romantic or platonic in nature.
Romantic Orientation: Romantic orientation refers to an individual's potential to experience romantic attraction to a specific gender or genders. Romantic attraction is distinct from sexual attraction, and involves feelings of love, passion, and intimacy towards another person.
Asexual: A person who does not feel sexual attraction.
Bisexual: Attraction to more than one gender.
Coming out: The process of publicly revealing one’s sexual orientation or gender identity.
Demisexual: A person who feels sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional connection.
Gay: A man attracted to other man.
Heteroflexible: Primarily heterosexual but may engage in same-sex activity.
Intersex: A person having sex characteristics that differ from typical male or female.
Lesbian: A woman attracted to other women.
Pansexual: A person who feels attraction to people regardless of their gender identity. This term aims to reject the gender binary.
Sapiosexual: A person who feels attraction based on intelligence rather than gender or sex.
Outing: Disclosing any aspect of a person's identity related to sexuality or gender that they haven't shared publicly.
Questioning: Process of exploring some aspect of sexuality or gender.
Gender Identity and Expression
Gender Identity: which may or may not correspond with their sex assigned at birth or the gender attributed to them by society. It includes the personal sense of the body, which may or may not involve a desire for modification of appearance or function of the body by medical, surgical or other means.
Gender Expression: How a person presents their gender through clothing, behaviour, etc.
Gender Diversity: Equitable representation of different genders.
Gender Binary: Refers to the classification of all people into two distinct genders: male and female. While many cultures have historically recognised a variety of gender identities with corresponding roles in society, these identities may have been suppressed with the spread of Western colonisation.
Genderqueer: A person identifying as neither, both, or a combination of male and female.
Genderfluid: Adjective for someone whose gender is not fixed over time.
Gender Oppression: Systems that privilege cisgender people and disadvantage transgender or gender non-conforming people.
Agender: Identifying as having no gender.
Cisgender: Gender identity aligns with sex assigned at birth.
Transgender: Umbrella term for people whose gender identity differs from the gender identity generally assumed for the sex they were assigned at birth.
Transition: The process of aligning one's body, name, and legal documents with their gender identity.
- Social Transition: Changes in name, pronouns, clothing, etc.
- Legal Transition: Updating legal documents.
- Medical Transition: Hormone therapy and/or surgery.
Gender Confirmation/Affirming Treatment: Medical interventions to align with gender identity.
Non-Binary: Gender identity outside the male-female binary.
Deadnaming: Using a trans person's birth name when they no longer use it.
Chosen Name: A name a person selects to reflect their gender identity.
Dysphoria: deep feeling of discomfort or dissatisfaction that can arise when a person experiences a disconnect between their emotional or physical state and their identity or circumstances. This term is commonly used in the context of gender dysphoria, but can also be applied to other contexts, such as body or emotional dysphoria, where someone feels uncomfortable with their appearance, situation or internal aspects of themselves.
Passing: Being perceived as belonging to a gender identity different from one's assigned sex.
Drag: Exaggerated, theatrical presentation of gender.
Hormone Blockers: Medications that interfere with the production or action of hormones in the body
Binding: Flattening the chest area.
SOGIESC: Acronym for Sexual Orientation, Gender Identity, Gender Expression and Sex Characteristics.
Queer: Inclusive term of a wide range of diverse sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions.
QPOC: Queer Person of Color
Did you know? In the 19th century, the term used to refer to male homosexuality was Uranism. It alluded to the Greek god Uranus, associated with the idea of a pure and elevated, almost Platonic, love between men. Unfortunately, it became linked with negative connotations and fell out of use, later replaced by the word homosexual, coined in 1868.
As we will see in the following section, words are very powerful tools, and with great power comes great responsibility. That's why we have prepared a table for you that lists outdated terminology and its modern equivalents to keep you up-to-date with your students.
A lexicon of gender identities around the world
Below are a few examples from the vast array of terms used globally to describe individuals with diverse SOGIESC. The meanings of terms can vary significantly between regions, with some being perceived negatively in certain contexts. Words that were once derogatory or used as slurs have been reclaimed by those they were intended to describe. While a term might be accepted by some, it may not be viewed the same way by everyone. It is essential to acknowledge individuals' rights to self-identify as they prefer. You are encouraged to identify terms that are relevant to your language(s) and specific context.
Acaults: A colloquial term in Burmese used to describe individuals assigned male at birth who embrace female attire and social roles.
Akava’ine: A term from the Cook Islands in Māori, designating transgender or transsexual women.
Bakla: A Tagalog term in the Philippines that encompasses various sexual and gender identities, particularly referring to those assigned male at birth who adopt female clothing, behaviour, and social roles.
Burrnesha: Unique to northern Albania, this term describes those assigned female at birth who adopt a male gender identity and vow to remain celibate. This practice is also known as vajzë e betuar, indicating the assignment of gender by parents at birth or in early childhood.
Calabai/Calalai/Bissu: The Bugis community in southern Sulawesi, Indonesia, recognises three sexes (male, female, intersex) and five genders (men, women, calabai, calalai, bissu). Calabai refers to those assigned male at birth who embody femininity, while calalai refers to those assigned female at birth who express masculinity. Bissu represents a transcendent gender that includes all or none and serves specific ritualistic functions, often likened to priests.
Dee/Tom: In Indonesia, the Philippines, and Thailand, these terms characterise women who present femininely (dees) and those with masculine gender expressions (toms) who are attracted to other women.
Fa’afafine: A term denoting third-gender individuals from Samoa and among the Samoan diaspora, similar to fakaleitī and māhū.
Fakaleitī: A Tongan term referring to individuals assigned male at birth who exhibit feminine gender expression, akin to fa’afafine and māhū.
Guevedoche: A term in the Dominican Republic referring to certain intersex individuals who do not identify strictly as men or women.
Hamjensgara: Used in the Islamic Republic of Iran, this term describes men primarily attracted to other men. It is preferred by those who wish to avoid being seen as part of Western LGBTIQ+ activism, and it highlights a desire to fit within traditional Iranian family dynamics.
Hijra: A broad term prevalent in South Asia, especially India, which can refer to individuals who do not identify as men or women, and in some contexts, to women assigned male at birth. In Pakistan and northern India, they may also be called khawaja sara or zenana.
Khanith: An Omani term indicating a person assigned male at birth with feminine gender expression. Although historically viewed as derogatory or inaccurate, some individuals have embraced it.
Kuchu: A slang term for gay individuals in Uganda, historically negative but reclaimed by some within the community.
Māhū: Literally meaning "in the middle," this term is used in Hawaiian (Kanaka Maoli), Māori (New Zealand), Ma’ohi (Tahitian), and other French Polynesian cultures to describe third-gender individuals with traditional spiritual and social roles, similar to fakaleiti and fa’afafine.
Mashoga: A Swahili term from Kenya that denotes a variety of gender identities, primarily used for gay men, though it also applies to those assigned male at birth who express femininity or identify as non-binary.
Metis: In Nepal, this term refers to individuals assigned male at birth who exhibit a feminine gender identity or expression.
Mithli: A shortened form of mithli al-jins, this Arabic term describes a person whose primary attraction is towards the same gender and is considered non-derogatory.
Motsoalle: A Basotho term from Lesotho that refers to a woman in a socially acceptable long-term relationship with another woman, which may involve physical intimacy alongside each person’s heterosexual partnerships.
Muxe: Among the Zapotec people in Mexico's Oaxacan peninsula, muxe (or muxhe) traditionally refers to individuals assigned male at birth who express femininity. In recent years, it has also been associated with gay men.
Shuga/Bujaina: These are preferred terms in Tanzania for gay men (shuga) and lesbians (bujaina).
Sistergirl/Brotherboy: Terms used to describe Indigenous transgender individuals within the Queensland Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities in Australia. A sistergirl (or sistagirl) is someone assigned male at birth who identifies as female, while a brotherboy is someone assigned female at birth who identifies as male. Sistergirls typically adopt female roles within their community, while brotherboys take on male roles.
Skesana: An IsiNgqumo term used by Bantu speakers in southern Africa and Zimbabwe to describe individuals assigned male at birth who identify with a female gender or express femininity. In the same language, injonga refers to masculine gay men.
Takatāpui (Takataapui): A Māori term that originally referred to a same-gender partner. It has evolved into an umbrella term that encapsulates diverse sexual orientations and gender identities while embracing Indigenous identity. Additional Māori and Pacific terms for gender identity in New Zealand include aikāne, akava’ine, fa’afafine, faafatama, fakafifine, fakaleiti, māhū, palopa, tangata ira tāne, vakasalewalewa, and whakawahine.
Tida wena: A term for the two-spirit identity among the Warao people, an Indigenous culture from the Bolivarian Republic of Venezuela. It describes individuals who do not identify strictly as male or female and are believed to possess dual spirits, often taking on the role of a shaman.
Travesti: A nuanced Spanish term whose meaning can vary by context and region. Commonly used in South America, particularly in Argentina, Brazil, and Peru, it describes individuals assigned male at birth who develop a gender identity aligned with expressions of femininity. Initially, the term referred to cross-dressing but has expanded to encompass individuals who live as women daily.
Outdated Term |
Recommended Term |
Why? |
Homosexual |
Gay or Lesbian |
It is not completely out of use, but its generalisation is. Using this word is not necessarily wrong or hurtful, but don't generalise! Young people tend to prefer to identify with more concrete labels. |
Transvestite |
Cross-dresser |
This term is often seen as more inclusive, as it does not make assumptions about an individual's gender identity or sexual orientation. |
Hermaphrodite |
Intersex |
It is the preferred term for individuals born with sex characteristics that do not fit typical male or female patterns. It is more inclusive and accurate than "hermaphrodite," which is an outdated and potentially stigmatising term. |
Sexual Preference |
Sexual Orientation |
"Sexual preference" is an older term that implies that sexual attraction is a choice or preference. |
Transsexual |
Transgender |
“Transgender" is a broader term that encompasses a wider range of gender identities, including non-binary individuals who may not desire or undergo physical transitions. |
Sex reassignment |
Gender affirmation |
This term emphasises the affirmation of one’s gender identity rather than a change of sex. |
Interactive activity 1:
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Interactive activity 2: LGBTQIA+ Terminology
Objective: This activity aims to enhance both teachers' and students' understanding of LGBTQIA+ terminology and realities.
Materials:
- Glossary of terms
- erm cards (e.g., asexual, polyamorous, demisexual)
- Statement cards containing affirmations about LGBTQIA+ myths and concepts. For example, some statements could be: "Non-binary people are not really men or women" or "Lesbians cannot be feminists." Make sure to include both true and false statements to encourage rich discussion.
Procedure
Begin with a brief introduction highlighting the importance of accurately understanding these terms. Then, divide participants into groups and provide each group with statement cards about LGBTQIA+ identities and myths. Each group should define the concept, discuss, and decide whether the statement is true or false before sharing their response with the rest of the class. As statements are presented, the teacher should provide clear explanations and definitions, aiming to foster reflection and dialogue among students. To conclude, facilitate a brief reflection on the importance of visibility and how misinformation can perpetuate stereotypes.